Update October 2011: We are a little late doing our yearly update but here it is. We can now say we go to lifestyle clubs. We enjoy it. We will gladly meet people there. We are still as laid back as the first day and finding time for this life is a little harder as the s get older. The M half works away a lot and the F half does get hall passes. Just remember to get the pass you have to go through the M half and you will have to travel to us. Sorry local singles it still is no and nothing will change our mind. Feel free to message or chat and do not be afraid if we are not in your area code, M half works all over and F does visit and you never know when we will be in your area code. It is always nice to meet like minded people on the road. Have a great year everyone Update June 2010: When messaging us, we are a couple, when we say we are going to meet, it means we will be there. Single men, we do not have to accomodate you, you have to accomodate us. When we travel 3 hrs to meet people and then they bail because they think we are not real, check who the real people are. If you want to meet, we will meet, no shows are a automatic ban!!!WARNING!! Any institutions, individuals, and/or third parties using this site and/or any of its associated sites for studies or projects, and/or any duplication (for any rea) and/or posting to any site - You do NOT have our permission to use any of our profile and/or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications under the Privacy Act, Copyright and/or other. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this. Its about time that we updated our profile. We are not so new anymore. We are not "newbies" nor are we professionals. We enjoy the lifestyle but their are some simple guidelines that we have come up with. Firstly, discretion is a must because we are both professionally employed. We are willing to travel to meet friends and have a good time but please remember the highway does travel both north and south. Ideally we would like to meet people not from our city but that is not a must. The she part of this relationship is a very confident woman that knows what she wants and is beautiful to boot. She is very orally fixated and is a people pleaser. She is what we refer to as "situationally bi", in that she first and foremost, prefers men, but also enjoys playing with women if the right ones come along. She is always eager to please and takes instruction well! The male half is quite comfortable in all situations. He enjoys going down on a woman and is quite happy watching as participating and is quite voyeuristic. We are not Ken and Barbie size ones but we are quite comfortable in our bodies and believe real beauty comes from the inside out.

My Ideal Person We are looking for friends first. Who doesn't need more friends in their life. If everything works out, we would be agreeable to almost any combination and like everyone else on this site, we have a special spot for a unicorn, "single woman". Of course there are some preferences such as being disease free and safe sex are non-negotiable. She prefers that he be circumcised and if possible snipped because the m half is fixed and would be extremely hard to explain an accident. Feel free to talk to either one of us but remember that we share everything and come only as a packaged deal. We are very open and honest with each other and look for that in our friends. We love to laugh and a sense of humour is a huge drawing card for both of us. Discretion is a must. The m half is very voyeuristic and has lots of pics, of his wife, to share but you share first. We believe that there is no such thing as a stupid question and we will answer all that are asked as best we can.

Ideally after communicating for sometime we would travel to your city or vice versa and we would meet for drinks or dinner. There is never any pressure as we have felt the pressure of pushy couples and wouldn't want to do that to anyone. If everything goes well and we hit it off, we would definitely move things further along, but if not, no worries, we are all adults!

We are still looking for that special couple to take us to a lifestyle club for the first time and if you want to be that couple, drop us a line

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, Under a waterfall, A store dressing room, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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