Author, English tutor, ex journalist, speaker, enjoys writing fiction and how to guides. The advantage to you is I'm great at role play and stories. Or maybe you are thrilled at the idea of being the partner of an authoress, a sexy blonde with a pink complexion and a big bust. Humorous, witty, amusing, well-read, well-travelled. See blog. If you've time to research my fantasies and experiences and earlier thoughts, go to Home page, right column, click on blogs. I'm looking for a steady boyfriend to take me out regularly for romantic dinners, chats over coffee, days out, weekends away, holidays, whatever you like. Culture but some sport, I enjoy swimming, aqua-robics, belly dancing and Latin dancing at a gym. Love Jacuzzis, saunas, and leisure centres.

My Ideal Person I'm polite and friendly so if you live nearby or don't mind travelling or want to talk psychology and send an interesting letter I'm likely to reply. I don't react to sex talk until I know somebody. Just as you might flirt but wait for encouragement at a party or a pub - you might be a beacon of safety and sanity among so many who want too much too soon even on line. Safety advice on this site (end of home page) tells me not to send my personal emails to everybody. So I'd appreciate emails to this site until I know you a bit better. Rather than meet loads of people for a drink, I'd rather wait and meet one solvent man prepared to commit time and effort to dressing up and taking me out for dinner. My ideal dinner date is a similar, educated, ambitious entrepreneur. A man providing stability and devotion plus a little private excitement. I tend to ignore people who seem to be playing hard to get, irresponsible, 'NSA', nor promiscuous people looking for women (plural!) I prefer those concerned about health and safety, clean clothes, car and home, concerned that I get home safely. If you hope I'll be keen to meet you, it helps if you show you care about me. What I want is one witty, perfect person for a heterosexual, mutual admiration society, better known as romance.
My ex, an ex-pat, took me around the world on expense accounts. Through hard work, long hours, we ended up with a second home with a swimming pool and country club membership. But he's a workaholic, then out mountain climbing and probably entertaining other women in smart hotels. I'd like to maintain a similar lifestyle (couldn't fit my possessions in a one room flat), but with a devoted lover, who is free to see me Saturday night and phone me every night late at night. My friends include teachers, doctors, lawyers and consultants. I want a man who will be presentable at meetings, conferences, parties or dinners, confident and proud of himself and me.
I'd love you to take me out to candle-lit restaurants so I can dress up and look gorgeous for you. I'll buy an expensive new slinky black dress, high heels and fishnet stockings, spend time and money having my hair and nails done to look gorgeous for you. While we could meet for morning coffee, an offer of a drink suggests the man might be looking for a one night stand. The offer of a romantic, candle-lit dinner date suggests a man who is generous with his time and money, prepared to spending time getting to know you. I'm at home in country pubs with discount buffets as well as five star hotels. Of course I dream of a lifestyle with a gorgeous man who knows how to dress to impress, seeking an educated, blonde wife who's a credit to him. I'm no longer sweet 16, living on coffee and ice cream. If not now, when?
I'm from a professional, cultured family. Ideal would be similar. But I reckon if I'm prepared to meet anybody of any race, any religion or none, and any age, I stand more chance of making friends learning about life and with luck meeting my dream. We'll immediately have lots to talk about if you are in or know about medicine, law, publishing, TV, radio, films, property, life coaching, NLP, academia - you tell me. I'm a good listener, easy going, willing to share all your interests. Or keep myself busy while you're busy. I want to make you happy, smiling every minute of every day as I laugh at your jokes and look into your eyes. Please send a photo of your face or yourself fully clothed, shirt and tie. I don't need nude photos! If you unattached and looking for a LTR, have an MBA, are a consultant, travel on expenses, live in London, want to take me out for lunch or dinner, I'm interested. I'll bypass anybody too obviously horny, hasty, rude, crude, furtive, seeking multiple partners in favour of you if you have a smiling photo and friendly approach. I want to be number one in your life. I'm a romantic. I deserve Mr Right and he deserves me. Could be a self-made man. He will be just as thrilled to meet me as I am to meet him.

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Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
For phone sex age play - a disobedient schoolgirl being
disciplined over desk in headmasters's study. She's
fully clothed except for bare bottom. Followed by anal
penetration
as punishment. This fantasy would also be a great turn-on
to hear in bed when a man is whispering in my ear trying to
get me excited.
But this is a fantasy, role reversal, holiday, topping
from the bottom if you like to call it that. In real life I
expect my man to treat with respect and consideration and
love and passion and make my pleasure his greatest joy.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Headmaster

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Leather, Massage, Telling sexual fantasies, in real life and on the phone.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No. Only somebody in real life I care about - whoever is my
current flame.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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