I am extremely selective and would expect you to be as well. If you are looking to play games through dishonest descriptions of your desires and/or goals and accomplishments, then please move on, I have no space in my life for dishonesty. Integrity and trust are earned through time and effort, it's the willingness to invest that time which will pay off. I truly am one of the old school gentlemen who takes pride in making anyone feel safe and comfortable. Not into drama queens, heavy drinkers, or fakes, tell me what makes you smile and if it's not diamonds and pedicures by 3 gay guys in feather boas, then we just might get along. Show me your a per who's word is golden, mine is. Please have a picture, fair is fair. If you like to laugh, enjoy great music while sippin coffee on the deck watching the sunset over the lake, then lets chat. I have many passions in life, have seen a lot in the world, but yet have maintained my moral standing and feel justified to hold my head high. I can be comfortable at the nicest of country clubs, or at a hoe-down....It's all about the company you keep. I can make you laugh out loud....... the one that gets my attention will be able to do the same for me. Show me originality and wit....I crave it Things I have learned since dating online... 1) if it says hottie, sexy or foxy etc. In the name, it usually means they are not. A) if it says "bipolar" in the name....It does not mean they travel betwen the continents. 2) if it's a glamor shot.......Run forest run!!!!! 3) just because someone might have a great perality online, they just might have the ability to bore a lampost in "real" life. 4) one of the hardest things about this kind of dating is the rejection....Not towards me, I can take it well if done honestly, it's having to give it that sucks eggs. 5) even though you have the opportunity to meet someone "intellectually" first, you can still be fooled no differently then if meeting someone in the frozen food section or bar. What I have to offer is this.... 1) loyality, integrity, and common sense. I am looking for the woman that no matter what her background is, would still make me proud to have on my arm at any event. 2) Nonvilolent and drama free conduct. But I am not the one to stand by and watch anyone be hurt in front of me, just the way I was brought up I guess but I save the super hero power for the bad guys...and I still look pretty dang good in tights and a cape too. 3) Talent and skills. My career is as stable as can get in this economy but will always work on something till the day they toe-tag me, I love tools too much...maybe way too much....yup...definately 4) I cook like grandma used too....the old Italian way 5) Humality, might not sound like it here, but hey, ya gotta sell the goods somehow. I'm as much a homebody as I am finding fun things to do in Chicago....and as "normal" as it gets....no really, am too not :^) Here's your chance to meet the type of man everyone seems to be lookign for...I am at the top of my field as a Computer Scientist, a great perality who can make you laugh till your sides hurt...a man with a good heart, compasionate, caring, the kind of man that your mother would love...well traveled and spoken...and yet I can still hang with the hommies. I would never cheat, hit or abuse in any way, s love me, dogs love me, hell, even goldfish love me. I like to go out and do things but consider myself more of a home body. I know these are only words on a screen, but to know me is to know these things are true. Money in your pocket means nothing, it's the class money can't buy that I seek. I always hear about never being able to find "one of the good ones left".....well here I am ladies

My Ideal Person She should be attractive both inside and out. A true sense of humor is an absolute must to hang out with me. You should feel comfortable at either the country club, or biker bar on Sunday for a burger. I like a woman that can pass off as the church lady on the sidewalk, and slut on the bed. (or couch works too)