When I'm at home alone, I like to zone out and decompress from the day's stress. Commitment-wise, I just want a secret no-strings fling that gives us both what we're missing. The philosophy I live by is stay relaxed, stay mellow, stay loose and be open to whatever happens. For me a perfect date is anything as long as it ends back at my place with our clothes off. I want to get out of the rut my life is in. For me a perfect Friday night is a discreet encounter with a hot friend. I'm not changing my life, I'm changing how I live it. If you contact me I might not reply immediately since I'm new to this and still a bit shy. I look forward to whatever life brings.