If you have a question, just ask. Yes, I know how to communicate orally and written. In two years, I lost over 100 pounds. But if you haven't, it is no problem with me. We are all a work in progress. Let's talk! All I ask is you be drama, D & D free. We can work with the rest. Tell what you like...or dislike...

My Ideal Person My ideal is someone who knows what she wants and is not afraid of letting me know. No one likes the same thing all the time. Life is about extending boundaries. So should be relationships. If I had taken relationship classes, I probably would have wanted to ace and then repeat them. There is no telling which way I would have gone. I like oral, giving and receiving. I like sensual and sexual.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
What is on the radio now?????

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
She walked into the room. I couldn't tell you why she
stood out. There was nothing shouting about her appearance.
Maybe it was the curve in her pants or the sway in the way she
stood or the colors in her clothes. Maybe it was just me.
It must have been her smile or her style. I walked over and
kidding her about something. She smiled and shot back a
smile and a quip. As we talked about everything under the
sun for the next hour, we touched hand and arms while staring
into each others eyes. As she tried left, we traded exit
lines about having to get going somewhere knowing we really
didn't want to. Finally, one of us asked to see each
other again and we exchanged phone number and email and
continued to talk. What is it about this lady? Warm is now
heated. I blurted something like "be careful, I might
take you up on that." She challenged me with a half
tease/kidding "Surrrreeee." I quoted Shakespeare
with "Lead on McDuff." She did with, "If
I lead, you aren't going to get lost, are you?"

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Celebs are nice but unaccessible for most of us. Give me
some one who is warm and willing anyday.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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