seeking more than just a one time thing. hoping to find a forever thing

My Ideal Person We are a long time committed couple hoping to find a nice, fun, professionally oriented woman that wants to build a relationship and life with us. This is not a whim. It is something that we both are totally on board with. We are committed to each other and bringing the right woman into our relationship. We are hoping to actually find a woman that will be able to love both of us as much as we love each other and let us love her in return. We want the lady that joins us to know emotionally that she is an equal member of our family. No one will be left out or should ever feel left out.
The lady we are hoping to find will be willing to explore the idea of a serious committed poly relationship, to date us both & eventually join our family. Our ideal lady is someone who is either employed or in school full time. We would ideally like her to be someone that enjoys travel, movies, romance, etc.
We are looking for someone who is emotionally gutsy, intelligent, not bound by the edicts of society and willing to explore unorthodox situations to find the niche in life that makes her happy. We would ideally like that person to be able to hold their own and carry on a conversation. .
Your race doesn't matter. While you must be legal, age is otherwise unimportant. Attitude & maturity are. You can be 18 or 40s and we can still make it work. You should be comfortable and serious about this type of relationship, not unduly jealous, possessive or a drama queen.
So if you have ever thought about exploring your desires in this type of situation, please reach out.
We understand that doing so can be kind of scary, but truly we will not bite and really are exceptionally nice people. All we ask is that in your initial e-mail you give us enough detailed information about yourself to let a reasonably perceptive person gauge the potential. Just tell us whatever you feel comfortable disclosing and yet think would give us some sense of you as a person.
If after a few e-mails, all parties think things seem promising, we would like to sit down together for cocktails or brunch and see if there is enough of a connection to consider exploring other possibilities.
We understand that chemistry is required for any physical connection, and there needs to be some compatibility for a real friendship. There will be no pressure or expectations. This is not something that can be forced.
After that if there seems to be some chemistry and the possibility of a real connection we would both like to date you for a time (both individually and as a couple) It would be great to find someone we could get to know and trust, hang out with when schedules allow, and hopefully overtime develop a lasting friendship and eventually maybe the love of our lives.