ok so I'm a 41 yr old divorced guy with very very little experience in any world except my ex-wife's lol I have been with a total of 8 women i have not paid I have recently discovered that my life has been truly truly sheltered and I really know less than nothing about the world an how things work these days. I used to think that I was wordly wise an could not be shocked but the more i explore life the more stunned I am by what little I did know. in the 15 years of my marriage i did not have sex in the last five so was relegated to sneak watching porn. I like to connect with people on an intellectual level and let the rest follow. I have also become interested in the BDSM lifestyle as a Dom but have little to no experience but wish to learn. I am a Gentleman by nature and a romantic at heart but I also have a perverted streak so big it could be used as a bridge from Australia to the UK. I may not have the biggest or widest cock on the planet but I know how to eat pussy well. I may not get you all the way but by gods you will be close!,(my x could not reach orgasm) I consider myself educated and artistic and ever so slightly out there, I don't drink or smoke but I enjoy many other things , fine art, cinema,television, well written books , history, philosophy,nature,comic books.I love the Napoleonic era of history and enjoy spending my free time exploring it thru art, literature and cinema. I have a few tattoo's that have great meaning to my life and......I am not averse to almost anything given the opportunity to try it. I am open minded, freaky, voyeuristic. I want to explore everything, do you want explore with me?[SIZE 10][/SIZE][SIZE 10][/SIZE][COLOR coral][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person I'm (bi-curious). I'm interested in exploring sex with other people, I tend more to the str8 side but am willing to play with my sexuality with a couple (man/woman). the only requirements for me are an open mind and an ability to be Adults about things.
I am really green in these waters , so if you have the patience to aid me in my explorations then please do not hesitate to message me.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
David Bowie, Robbie Williams, obscure folk bands, meatloaf,
elvis , the beatles, it realy depends o

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
not really

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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