Married since '71 and still in Luv, swinging since just after the dinosaurs disappeared. Don't care about heavy/slender, old/young, tall/short, experienced/inexperienced, small/large, but do very much care about that 'spark' that says we get along well. We enjoy house parties and 1-on-1 with other couples, getting out with friends, making new friends/acquaintances, hot tubs, antique cars and street rods, flea markets, and slow sex in whatever order they may come up. :-) We are Real, drama free, and discreet. Both are non-smokers, non-drinkers, shaved/trimmed and surgically safe. We test for STD's twice yearly and in all of our years in the lifestyle have [U]Never had Any[/U] sort of positive result! Darlene is Not HWP, so if that's important to you then you will probably want to move on. [U] [B]We have no interest at all in SM's, cheaters, or anyone who wants to 'surprise' or 'persuade' their spouse/SO. SM's, if you don't hear from us it's because we have no interest! SM's who contact us without bothering to read our profile Will be blocked! [/B][/U] We prefer a 4-way phone chat in advance of any 'first date' so that everyone knows that the other is 'real'. If we schedule a mutually agreeable date for a 'first date' and something comes up, that's okay. If it happens twice, we're Not going to be chasing you...the ball is in your court. We're real even if you aren't. If we message you it's because we're interested in getting to know you both. If you have no reciprocal interest, just say so and we'll move on. We understand that sometimes interest isn't returned and that's just the way it is in the lifestyle.

My Ideal Person Married or committed cpl who are relaxed with the possibility of sex happening or not happening, whatever the mood calls for. Someone who can hold an intelligent conversation while accepting that others may have differing views. Someone who is well acquainted with personal hygiene (should go without saying, but we've been surprised before).