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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
get it up - 11/20/2019

have you gotten your xmas decorations up yet? the house up the block from me already has their tree right smack in the living room window, lights and all. and saw a few other houses with christmas wre

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
parental guidance suggested - 11/16/2019

would you ever or have you ever told your parent(s) to not show up at your place? seems my older brother told our mother such a thing and i know it hurt her feelings bc she has mentioned it a couple t

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
got milk? - 11/14/2019

the country's largest milk producer filed for bankruptcy recently bc apparently people are not drinking as much milk these days. if you're not drinking cows milk, what are you drinking instead

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jolielaide 52 F
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where did everyone go? - 10/22/2019

does anyone know how you find blogs today? there are people i watch but it seems like the recent or most recent blogs, like the ones for today and preceding are not listed. they got the polls, and the

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jolielaide 52 F
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what's THAT? - 10/21/2019

did anyone notice the new feature link at the very end next the What's Hot at the top?? it's blue letters say New App. idk what it's for and i already know i won't use it, the same

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jolielaide 52 F
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chin up buttercup - 10/20/2019

saw a status update and the man referenced wanting to cum on tits, lips, face, mouth, wherever. and a female replied, love cum all over, just not my face. years ago a guy at work said he wanted to cum

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jolielaide 52 F
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do you participate?? - 9/22/2019

came across a status update: you can't even 3x a day for free anymore? this site really went downhill didn't it? that had wondering what do those that have complained do with themselves once

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jolielaide 52 F
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dyeing. are you dyeing? - 9/20/2019

"i don't want gray hair." jennifer aniston said she will never stop dyeing her hair. she has no intention of going grey. in general men can get away with gray hair as a distinguished, si

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jolielaide 52 F
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are you ready (or not)? - 9/8/2019

for some football. football season is back and it looks like damn near all the teams are playing today. way too early for super bowl predictions but snacks are an easy call. for those of you have a t

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jolielaide 52 F
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b'day - 9/7/2019

sept.th is a solemn, respectful day and always will be in perpetuity. how do you continue to celebrate the birthdays fall on day? a few friends n' family have b'days during entire week (ev

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
LABOR DAY! - 9/2/2019

is honor the labor movement but mostly i think people enjoy the holiday for the extra long weekend and a day off from work, if you're lucky have off from work today. i was thinking of going to

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jolielaide 52 F
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what's the deal?? - 8/14/2019

so i'm asking this to satisfy curiosity. with all the repetitive questions about points and the IM feature, i'm wondering what's the deal with that? a person uses a certain number of point

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jolielaide 52 F
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feeling queasy? - 8/4/2019

talking about free chats and the need for points seems a little silly in light of the shootings in ohio and el paso. and while these events are far and away from me, i am feeling sick, queasy. idk wha

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jolielaide 52 F
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POINTS - 7/28/2019

this might sound dumb and i did try research this question beforehand. i know someone might try slaughter me for it but here goes. i have given "tips" and "gift" points. and i h

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jolielaide 52 F
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we meet. - 7/26/2019

that was my reply when asked, "how will i know it's you?" the conversation started on the IM and of his own volition he sent me a pic of himself (and his phone no.) we had only just star

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jolielaide 52 F
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are animals better than hoomans? - 5/20/2019

grumpy cat died last week and was only 7yo. well, i panicked and rushed my pet to the vet and $500 later, NOTHING MAJOR was wrong, but was told my pet is yo which makes him senior and as pets get olde

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jolielaide 52 F
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day late and a $1 short - 2/15/2019

it's the day after valentine's and i am not throwing shade on love but it's a bogus kinda 'holiday' that perpetuates the hype of needing one day. really? one day to profess love to

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jolielaide 52 F
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not my finest - 12/24/2018

i admit it. long lines, the stress. (sigh) a woman cut in front of me. i said all the pleasantries of excuse me, i was next, i've been waiting, standing right here. first, she said i wasn't ne

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jolielaide 52 F
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have a seat. .. - 8/21/2018

...or just take mine. reserved tix yesterday for a movie today. but someone was already sitting in my seat. and since it was dark in the theatre i asked the dude at the box office to double check my s

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jolielaide 52 F
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beyond vanilla - 7/15/2018

has your taste for the decadent been refined beyond vanilla? it's nat'l ice cream day today! häagen has some imaginative flavors that are quite lovely; green tea, dulce de leche. and a dove b

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jolielaide 52 F
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cheers (drink to that) - 6/29/2018

cheers to the freakin' weekend. i drink to that, yeah yeah. oh, let the jameson sink in. i drink to that, yeah yeah - riri is anyone doing anything amazing this weekend??

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jolielaide 52 F
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act it - 6/17/2018

that's what i was i told, if i was interested, then i should "act it". wth? wtf. i guess he didn't take my previous email seriously, where i said to lets "meet for drinks".

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jolielaide 52 F
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i do. - 5/18/2018

speaking of marriage, anyone watching the royal wedding of meghan to prince harry?? i remember watching charles marry diana but that was to see her dress. yes, i realize this is more of

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jolielaide 52 F
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no action - 2/25/2018

a detail about the florida shooting came to light; a armed, uniformed deputy was on duty during that time and did nothing, he did not engage the killer. the one guy who was sworn to duty and responsib

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jolielaide 52 F
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HELP ME - 2/18/2018

lives are being taken and the grief is palpable. school. the mall. movies. the grocery store all used to 'safe places' but not any longer. i understand the 2nd amendment but explain it to me l

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jolielaide 52 F
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FRIENDS - 2/10/2018

tried a search of my question before making this post but didn't find any answers that came remotely close, so i'll ask it here and wait for the sat. night disemboweling to begin. <br>&l

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jolielaide 52 F
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are you ready?? - 2/4/2018

i'm not. you'd have to be living under a rock to not know that today is SUPER bowl i have no in this fight and made no concrete plans to watch; the highlight reel will

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jolielaide 52 F
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eat anything good? - 11/2/2017

another long week and low to no energy to make a proper dinner/supper and eat like a regular person. it's cereal tonight (no lie, special k w/ the dried berries). i will live vicariously, share yo

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jolielaide 52 F
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cooties - 12/11/2016

yes, cooties! my diseased co-worker passed their cold germs on to me and i've been sick. being sick is the pits! and all my get well tricks don't seem to be working. any suggestions from you to beat

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jolielaide 52 F
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the heat is on . .. or is it? - 11/16/2016

weather is always crazy and unpredictable; indian summer, fall, wet n' rainy, then sunny - wth! i i have thrown an extra quilt on the bed, but i haven't turned my heat on yet. seems to me like a waste

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jolielaide 52 F
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sweet piece - 10/28/2016

cool shell, hard nut nestled in my cheek, up against my tongue doing a slow, hot melt. its NATIONAL CHOC'LATE DAY!! love a peanut m & m. when you gotta have it, what is your go to sweet piece of candy

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jolielaide 52 F
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what's in a name??? - 4/11/2016

does a profile username have any influence on your decision to read, 'friend', or HOTLIST someone? or does a username cause you to pause or ignore a profile all together? examples such as: 'freecooki

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jolielaide 52 F
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takes 10m - 1/18/2015

singing daily for at least ten minutes reduces stress, clears sinuses, improves posture and can even help you live longer. what is your go to sing song? mine is 'i wanna be where you are'. what's your

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jolielaide 52 F
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wwud - 10/27/2014

an acquaintance left their cat in my care in 2008. i've asked repeatedly when they were coming back for their cat and got all kinds of excuses, as to why they couldn't. (sigh) so i just resigned mysel

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jolielaide 52 F
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is it happening to you? - 3/24/2014

have had other members tell me i've viewed their profiles, when the fact of the matter is i haven't. when i look at the profiles i have viewed, there are more than a few that i don't even recognize. i

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jolielaide 52 F
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dude, you're sued! - 9/28/2008

short version - a 'very good'friend and former intimate partner fell in my home and hurt their ankle. now nine months later they say they want to look into suing me. would you mind being sued by a fri

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jolielaide 52 F
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what would you do? - 6/28/2008

people marry for their own reasons, right? so i'm just going to ask this w/o giving all the boring details except for one - love has nothing to do with it. they know you don't love them but want to ma

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jolielaide 52 F
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you can't make this shit up - 4/18/2008

this is the short version - a year or so ago i had a fellow mbr come to my home for some harmless fun. about four months ago he emails me and says he's working in a local store, the shop is empty and

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jolielaide 52 F
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just been duped and not the first time either - 4/5/2008

as i am writing this, i am on Y! with a fellow mbr who has just revealed they are not who they say in profile or picture. it's not the first time these guys have fooled me and this guy in parti

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jolielaide 52 F
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that's to far - 3/28/2008

i most always consider distance when someone wants to meet. i just don't like it when someone has to make a 'drive', even if they're willing to do so. though sex hasn't been discussed i think they thi

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jolielaide 52 F
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can i get your number? - 3/26/2008

one guy told me the reason he will ask for a phone no. is so that he can call the woman first - it is the gentlemanly thing to do. i think fair is fair. if a person is going to ask for your num

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jolielaide 52 F
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need grooming? - 3/18/2008

i'll make this short - would you shave a friend if they asked you to? the reason why they can't might factor into the type of answer you give but the bottomline is that they're physically unable to do

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jolielaide 52 F
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do you stand by your man? - 3/12/2008

based on known public events - your very powerful political husband cheating with prostitutes and you're first lady of the state, mrs. spitzer, would you stand by your man and stay in your +20yr marri

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jolielaide 52 F
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is spitz the pits? - 3/12/2008

ny governor, eliot spitzer, resigned his post after being caught in a sting by the feds. like marijuana should be legalized so that those that want it can get/have it and not go to jail or lose thei

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jolielaide 52 F
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funny glitches - 1/30/2008

i laughed when i saw it - a profile is only suppose to list up to 100 views in the last 30 days. mine says 682 views and for total views (since joining) it says 0. does any body else have any weirdly

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jolielaide 52 F
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hotlist hotlist - 10/15/2007

i have a couple profiles on my hotlist where it says 'profile turned off or inactive'. does that mean that it was automatically turned-off or did the person turn off their own profile? and i already c

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jolielaide 52 F
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are you low? - 10/7/2007

recently read a column in a (popular) magazine that said 'studies show that exhibitionism and low self-esteem go hand in hand'. i may be a little shy but low self esteem . .. do you feel that being on

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jolielaide 52 F
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hot in herre - 6/26/2007

summer heat up in the 90's - could blast the a.c. or turn the fan on . .. you do anything special to beat the heat? a neighbor bought an ice machine and carries ice to munch on wherever she goes.

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jolielaide 52 F
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this ain't europe - 6/22/2007

in europe this is not an issue - there's a nude/clothing optional beach in my county and i've noticed lately that a lot of families bring their there (pre and early teens). it just seems weird having

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jolielaide 52 F
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natural tan or spa tan - 6/21/2007

it's the first official day of summer - does anyone have an opinion on these spa tans? my friend got a membership, goes all the time, and now looks orange. not to hurt her feelings but it looks unnatu

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jolielaide 52 F
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green means go, red means stop - 6/20/2007

when viewing a profile under the Mutual Match heading, how often do you take into account the green check marks and the red x's to determine likability? are you put off by too many red x's?

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jolielaide 52 F
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pee play - 6/19/2007

some are NOT into watersports (urolagnia) but its been said that if you get stung by a jellyfish, have someone pee on you to diminish the sting. does anyone know if this same thing would work for bees

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jolielaide 52 F
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cd burn - 6/17/2007

summer is here and with b-b-ques and pool parties to attend in addition to other soirees, i'm putting together my own cd compilation of party songs. do you have a hands down favorite, make-you-dance-e

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jolielaide 52 F
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reduce recycle reuse - 6/16/2007

i was recently reminded of a commercial i saw when i was younger, of the one-tear indian sitting on his crying over the litter being thrown on the highway .. . are people still recycling? you guys ha

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jolielaide 52 F
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Father's Day - 6/14/2007

with Father's Day fast approaching is there anyone with a unique or different gift idea for the men/man who has just about everything there is already?

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jolielaide 52 F
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my day in court - 6/14/2007

in a few weeks i have to go to traffic court and on the summons my name is spelled wrong. for those of you in or know about law enforcement, is this detail something i can use to get a dismissal? the

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jolielaide 52 F
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mother/ spat. - 6/6/2007

my best friend and her mother had a falling out (this is going on close to a year now). however, i've remained friends with both. but because the mother keeps in contact with me thru email(s) and NOT

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