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"I didn't want to hurt him" 5/22/2008
I don't understand why women blow off men because they
"don't want to hurt them". I've seen
this happen many times with friends (male and female),
and to myself as well. A guy will ask a girl out, she's
not interested but she doesn't want to reject him so
she says yes, even gives out her phone #, with no intention
of ever going out on a date with the guy. If you're not
interested, just say so! ...
2 Comments, 58 Views,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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Working in a bar 5/1/2008
Working in a bar is definately a great thing, i believe everybody
would agree. Free drinks, great girls around you and of
course the sex. Yet, it is not always a sexy girl that is trying
to get you. Then what do one do? Just gets drunk enough? Or
runs away? Saying no can be a challenge...it is not really
pleasant, you know. We all have been there- been said "No
thanks" in one way or another. More ...
3 Comments, 96 Views,
12 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Do men find it hard to say "no"? 5/1/2008
When my man is propositioned he says that he feels like he's
being really rude by saying "No" to girls. He
even thinks that he's being rude by saying "No
thanks" to strippers when we're in a lap dancing
club; you get some right wrongens stripping these days
and it seems they know that men find it hard to say 'no'
too; why else would they push themselves so hard onto punters?
I always see ...
6 Comments, 90 Views,
9 Votes
,3.64 Score
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No means no 4/21/2008
Well you just have to speak up ur mind. No means no. That simple.
The more you are indecisive about it the more you will regret
it.
8 Comments, 338 Views,
12 Votes
,3.68 Score
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Lets just face the fact 4/13/2008
Being all "adults" here at this site, it seems
to me that we could use a Little common courtesy. Its ok to
let someone know if your not interested, "thanks,
but no thanks". I don't think there's anything
wrong with that. Its not hard to understand, its our que
to move on. And move on we should. Rejection is a part of being
on this site. Lets just face that fact and go on and still
have fun.
7 Comments, 120 Views,
15 Votes
,3.74 Score
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Telling Someone You Meet Sorry You Misrepresented 4/10/2008
I met someone through AdultFriendFinder about 4 months ago and she was nothing
what she described. I had already booked the hotel room
for us to spend the night but when she arrived I just wanted
to run. I told her I needed to run out and get some drinks but
I never came back. She still called and wanted to meet again.
How do you tell someone sorry you are nothing close to what
I was looking for and still ...
8 Comments, 390 Views,
19 Votes
,4.71 Score
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How do you do it 4/4/2008
Met a lady online-seemed great-got to know her very well
via email, shared pics (she loooks good)started talking
on phone, etc but her voice absolutely kills me-its awful...how
do artfully back away and not hurt her feelings to much?
4 Comments, 68 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Why are some people so mean? 3/31/2008
I don't understand why some find it necessary to write
so cruelly when one says a polite "No thank you."
After responding rather than ignoring their communications,
and doing so in a polite and tactful way, I have encountered
such meaness in spirit that it makes me shake my head in disbelief.
Why?
14 Comments, 209 Views,
14 Votes
,5.38 Score
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fisting 3/27/2008
do many women like fisting
3 Comments, 141 Views,
7 Votes
,1.26 Score
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putting yourself in their shoe 3/16/2008
I always have a hard time with saying no too, then i start
thinking what if things were the other way around. If i was
the one who was extremely attracted to the girl and you absolutely
want to know what the hell does she think of you. you soon realize, that yes you might hurt her now but in the
long run it would be better than not hearing the truth.
0 Comments, 14 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Unsure 2/25/2008
I have a male friend and hes is constantly flirting or making
comments that are suggestful. I usually laugh it off or
joke back with him but after knowing him for two months im
starting to think he might be serious. Any advice? Or maybe
I should ask him outright if he actually has feelings for
me?
3 Comments, 140 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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I'm not fond of smokers 2/23/2008
Peer pressure can often be quite subtle -- something as
simple as a passing suggestion or a visual cue is sometimes
all need to feel pressure to experiment with negative
behaviors. Meeting, and then resisting the challenges
posed by peer pressure takes courage and skill. By spending
time with your and teaching them the different
types of refusal lines they can use, they can decide which
one ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Letting her down easy. 2/18/2008
I'm curious to know when your not interested in a someone, what's
the best way to say it, so you don't hurt her feelings?
4 Comments, 42 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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no thanks? 2/15/2008
Fuck that....I say hell yeeeaaazzzzzz
1 Comments, 64 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Know before you go 2/11/2008
Before you go and meet someone, you should really establish
that chemistry before you go play with them. People will
say anything to get laid. What would you like to hear?
3 Comments, 93 Views,
8 Votes
,5.10 Score
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NO 2/3/2008
How do you tell someone that your not interested with out
hurting their feelings?
4 Comments, 88 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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a perfect no thanx 1/31/2008
I am not sure what the perfect rejection is, however i do
believe one that comes with a short explanation of why the
person who believed you had enough in common to be good 'adult-friends'
is not your type will recieve less Why nots or agressive
responses then ignoring or a auto reply does. just my thoughts
0 Comments, 58 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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no thanks 12/27/2007
its hard to do , but better for everyone to be polite and say
no thanks rather than nothing at all or being rude
7 Comments, 166 Views,
15 Votes
,5.27 Score
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Why stand women up? 12/13/2007
Ok I don't get it.All the guys on here bitch and moan
about the lack of women willing to meet but how many of you
ladies have been left hanging at an agreed meeting place/time?I've
run into 2 so far and i know there are others out there that
have done it to some of you.So I have started a new group to
try and help weed out the repeat offenders and let others
know not to waste their time.My time ...
16 Comments, 265 Views,
25 Votes
,6.01 Score
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are all the men on this site like this. 12/9/2007
i have noticed that alot of the men and some women on this
site will send you nasty emails if you tell them no thanks.
what happened the adult in AdultFriendFinder.
7 Comments, 220 Views,
22 Votes
,6.73 Score
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tough to say no 11/26/2007
I don't think it's in our nature to say no...
2 Comments, 32 Views,
1 Votes
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I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW ONCE TIME MORE..... 11/20/2007
POOR DEVILS !!!! This is a follow up to my article " I would like..."
This time, and I am referring to the male sex. I would like
to bring up the many times in which I had the opportunity
to witness how far hypocresy was carried by many. The same one that today builds you UP tomorrow will insult
you and offend you.....and why?
GENTLEMEN!! ...
11 Comments, 476 Views,
17 Votes
,6.10 Score
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no 10/25/2007
say no thanks
1 Comments, 30 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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The best way to say NO 10/25/2007
I think that there are many ways to say no to someone. The
best of course is being honest and telling them. Standing
someone up is not the way, too many do that, they say one thing
and then when you arrange to meet, they become a no show.
To me that is the cowards way out.
0 Comments, 38 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Responding 10/12/2007
I have sent out a lot of emails to women asking them if they
would like to chat. Why are women so rude by not returning
the email? I understand maybe I'm not there type, blah,
blah, blah. but an email would be nice acknowledgement
that they aren't fake!
6 Comments, 178 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Not responding is worse. 10/2/2007
I don't like to hurt someone else's feelings,
but not responding is a worse option only followed by being
mean or rude in response.
When I came here I brought the understanding that I'm
not going to appeal to everyone I'm attracted to - that's
just the way life is. I don't send many e-mails but when
I do, I like to hear back either way and I think most of us do
as well. A simple quick ...
10 Comments, 216 Views,
14 Votes
,4.26 Score
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Hypocrits or sore losers? 9/15/2007
I consider myself to be semi attractive and pretty damn
nice. So much to my dismay when my hubby and I have said "no
thanks" to some people (and not just on this site)
people have gotten nasty and said some hateful things.
One single male actually went so far as to call me a , another
one said my husband must be controlling me, and another
couple, after us telling them kindly they just weren't ...
5 Comments, 175 Views,
22 Votes
,6.97 Score
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Feeling bad... 9/12/2007
I've read most of the articles and comments on this
topic, but it hasn't helped me not feel guilty telling
someone no. Most of the time it is a case of "I'm
sorry, I can't drop everything to meet you, but I do
have a life if you had only read my profile" kind of
feeling. I was under the mistaken impression that in order
to be a member you had to at least be able to read, because
most of the ...
2 Comments, 57 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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I'm done 9/3/2007
So you log onto AdultFriendFinder, meet a guy, things go well and you hook
up for sex. You both like the sex and continue meeting more
regular then all of a sudden he just doesn't come around
anymore or answer your call. In a "No strings attached"
relationship is it too much to expect a reason why the relationship
is over or is it perfectly acceptable due to the nature of
the relation to just dissolve ...
10 Comments, 225 Views,
24 Votes
,5.97 Score
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Are we not adults? 8/26/2007
Sometimes if I see a pic I like or a profile that makes me smile
or makes me hot (usually from out of state), I'll send
an email to show appreciation. Most times I'll get
a note back thanking me which is nice. Now there are the times
I will send an email (from my area) asking if they would be
interested in chatting and I get nothing back. There has
even been times when I am contacted, a few ...
17 Comments, 365 Views,
14 Votes
,6.66 Score
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