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satnitespecl 64 M
2  Articles
Sister sites   12/1/2006

I knew that I was part of a greater network of websites but do they have to be carbon copies of one another. Seems like they could put alittle more effort in this and why am I in lesbian personals geez that's lame.


3 Comments, 69 Views, 0 Votes
? Who? Me?   11/30/2006

Like some people I have grown tired of the bar scene. As an alternative I decided to use the internet as a means of socialization. I have run the gambit of sites ranging from AdultFriendFinder to Match.Com. Throughout my exploits on the net I have come across a menagerie of pitfalls and foibles. I must say the most amusing is the use of the internet to solicit paid sexual acts. The majority of sites ...


10 Comments, 416 Views, 14 Votes ,6.34 Score
rm_evil_pussy 44 F
17  Articles
Recognition   11/27/2006

dont you just hate it when some people recognize you from being on here and think thats just horrid?!?! had that happen to me recently and even though i was taken by surprise, later i thought that well this person was on here too...so what could he have to say?!?! there is nothing degrading about belonging to a sex site. we all have sexual desires and our needs and ...


5 Comments, 268 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
freshbedroomfun 45 M
1  Article
How many originals?   11/27/2006

Add up all the members on this site. Impressive number, no?
How many unique people are there actually? Weed out the duplicate, forgotten, discarded and joke members and we are left with...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Lpipe 55 M
3  Articles
What in the world are we doing?   11/26/2006

There are hundreds of sex starved people, both married and not, that are not able to take the final step of making contact. People go through all the time and some extra money to set up thier account on AdultFriendFinder, check on it every other day, check all the new postings and some of the old ones, but never answer the messages to start the ball rolling. Instead it is put off for another time, check ...


4 Comments, 54 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
thickone_foru 76 C
1  Article
One more bites the dust!   11/26/2006

Well, I've been on AdultFriendFinder both as a gold member and a standard member and I can say with some authority that what type of member you are doesn't changes the odds that people will follow through with arranged meetings. Right now, I'm running about about 80% no-shows or people that just plain drop the ball when trying to arrange a meeting. I decided that going for that drink or cup of coffee, ...


2 Comments, 180 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
Canice70 51 M
6  Articles
Fake photos, fake profiles, fake people   11/26/2006

I'm sure that I'm not the only person to experience this, but AdultFriendFinder has been lax in getting back to me. I can deal with fake profiles soliciting (see my blog on suggestions for dealing with it) and fake photos are usually detectable, but now I find that there are two profiles with my name and photos circulating on this site, and no-one seems to know why! So, if I seem to have contacted you ...


1 Comments, 103 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
WhyceeWilliam 62 F
4  Articles
Getting to KNOW YOU?   11/24/2006

My big RANT is being on this website and finding out that people EXPECT you to just want to meet them out of the blue and hop into bed. Anybody ever hear of at least taking time to get to know someone first? ANYBODY EVER HEAR OF AIDS? CLYMEDIA? HERPES? ETC??? Don't get mad if a person wants to get to know you a little bit first before sucking your dick ok? BEING OPEN does NOT MEAN BEING ...


6 Comments, 97 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
bellflower323 54 C
1  Article
Aren't we all here for the same thing?   11/24/2006

I am just woundering why is that we all buy memberships to AdultFriendFinder to find a partner or cpl, we are all here for the same reason, but yet people or cpls still seem to get very jealous and yet still remain very pushy at the same time. Now if you really wanted all of that drama why put out the money to be here? You could just go to a local swingers party and get that all for ...


4 Comments, 124 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
Ticked off Silver gets kicked off.   11/21/2006

I am a silver member and I am pretty damm upset over what AdultFriendFinder is doing to me. For the past several weeks AdultFriendFinder has been kicking me off after a period of time.
No time limit is stated nor implied. I pay my bucks and I don't like being kicked off while I am reading an article or posting a response.
I also don't like when I post a response and AdultFriendFinder says Thank you for your ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
mairamichelle 58 T
3  Articles
Money and Instant Gratification   11/19/2006

Is something worth having worth waiting for? Do you equate happiness with financial solvency? Do you expect 'next day delivery.'? Do you bitch when the meal you order at a restaurant doesn't arrive on YOUR timetable? What do you do when you have a flat tire on the freeway? How about a thunderstorm that knocks out the power to your home? Are you the person that talks on your cellphone when ...


3 Comments, 95 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
rm_malejump69 49 M
1  Article
No Glove No Love   11/14/2006

This is now the second time I have met a female from AdultFriendFinder and again they want to have sex (all for that) problem is they dont want me to use a condom. She wants to have a dam baby!
Now I understand you will find a fruit loop on here but how can I have found two?
The first woman I met just like having sex with a stranger with no condom. Sorry, I am not into that at all. ...


2 Comments, 96 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
rm_downonit06 50 M
1  Article
something i've noticed about this site.   11/13/2006

i am a silver member. i often check the "recent members" part of my home page after signing in. over the last month or so i have noticed is the "recent members can only be contacted by gold membership subscribers for their first 3 days on the site" feature. so i started writing down the screen names of folks i might be interested in. oddly enough, all 5 of the names i wrote over a two day ...


1 Comments, 71 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
rm_evil_pussy 44 F
17  Articles
Getting tired....   11/13/2006

it seems like for the past week or so, all ive read is racist BS and the million dollar question of the day, "how do you like your cock" how many times can that one question be asked?!?! you think if they frequent the advice lines then they would see that question being asked at least 20 times a day in one form or another. the racial thing really bothers me though. i ...


3 Comments, 111 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
how do you say no, i'd rather be friends   11/11/2006

We are a happily attatched couple of "normal" guys and when i get hit on by someone who is gay, married or bi, we just have to meet them, but, when you do meet, sometimes they could be a great friend but a bad 3-way, fuck or somehow you just know when you see them that you dont want to have sex with them. We have met a few guys on this site and one of them is a great friend with the benefit ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
TgirlTownsville 47 F
2  Articles
TRANSEXUALS   11/11/2006

do u guys see transexuals as the fantasy rather than the reality
in all serious how many people know of alot of long term relationships or even relationships outside the bedroom with guys and transexuals ...


4 Comments, 203 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
Older women/younger men   11/9/2006

Ok, there has been something bugging me for a while. I have been a member on AdultFriendFinder for several years, I have my success stories, however they are much outweighed by immediate blow-offs and rejections. Now I know there are certain criteria that everone is looking for, however when that certain person's headline says something along the lines of "eternally lonely" or "need sex now" it's a ...


4 Comments, 114 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_FFcpl69 40 C
1  Article
Never say Never   11/9/2006

It is funny how some people are brought up to think that there are only a few certain acceptable ways to meet people. although the library and church social still exist it is far more common to find a "mate" on one of the numerous online dating sites or chat rooms.It seems that in this information age that although a lot of people meet in the above described way, you are still obligated to ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_loyalblonde 47 F
2  Articles
white boys get over it!   11/9/2006

i lost alot friends cause i refuse to date white men any more they are so bland an no flavor! i been thinking about black men for awhile! i knew i was gonna loose my inner circle cause they are stuck up assclowns! so fuck em! i got a new inner circle! so i really hate white men! an snoody white folks!


12 Comments, 259 Views, 18 Votes
GREYBOXING??????   11/9/2006

would someone pleeze explain what greyboxing is on AdultFriendFinder, ive seen the term a few times but dont know what it is


1 Comments, 114 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
TgirlTownsville 47 F
2  Articles
true for me ... what about anyone else ?   11/9/2006

THINGS THAT ARE DIFFICULT TO SAY WHEN DRUNK:
1. Innovative
2. Preliminary
3. Proliferation
4. Cinnamon


THINGS THAT ARE VERY DIFFICULT TO SAY WHEN DRUNK:
1. Specificity
2. Australian Constitution
3. Passive-aggressive disorder


THINGS THAT ARE DOWNRIGHT IMPOSSIBLE ...


3 Comments, 58 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
xgymnastyx 37 M
1  Article
Ok so if a guy is shorter than you how many points does he lose on 1-10 scale?   11/9/2006

Im a short guy and i think height is really a cock block for me so i was wondering if some people would like to share their perspectives


7 Comments, 106 Views, 0 Votes
niceguy9862 39 M
2  Articles
Points aquisition   11/7/2006

Has anybody noticed that when you do things that are supposed to earn you points that only half the time (roughly) do the points actually get credited? I have uploaded about 10 photos in the past and yet I have only ever been credited for 1. I know that this may seem to be a fairly trivial complaint but that is what a rant is all about, anyway it is very annoying. All that aside I think the ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
MrCofWI 67 M
6  Articles
New Members Getting Pimped Out?   11/6/2006

It's one thing to have established membership standards and benefits. But do some of you now feel your a -- or john -- with the service as your ? Let me explain: You log in. There's a tempting variety of new member photos selected based upon your own Cupid settings. You click to peak at one and discover that now only Gold members get first crack ...


7 Comments, 251 Views, 9 Votes ,6.20 Score
They want you to upgrade   11/4/2006

We have posted two articles on here. They show up as articles we have written. They donot show up so the general membership can read them. We have sent a message to the requesting an answers as to why they have not appeared? No reply to that. Then everything is upgrade your membemship. Why in the world would anyone want to do that. This site has gone down hill so bad.


3 Comments, 60 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
rm_lusso3 54 F
6  Articles
Men and Socks   11/4/2006

I am not really a fan of the naked pics some men put on here and much prefer to see a well defined body in nice underwear. The only problem with that is that a lot of men leave their socks on which kind of spoils the whole effect. Does anyone know why they do this, could it be that they just don't think about it or are they always ready for a quick getaway.....


7 Comments, 169 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
Why are so many TS/TG/TV?   11/4/2006

I'm in shock... who knew the demand was that great?


3 Comments, 111 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
rm_hrdbodman1 67 M
2  Articles
OSX and APPLE USERS   11/3/2006

(also see BLOG by the same name OSX and APPLE users)
Here is a note sent to AdultFriendFinder customer service (membership upgrade department):
Thank you for again leaving out a sizable number of your members and audience with your new release of Instant Messenger . By this point it does not surprise most of us who’ve been here awhile. I’m wondering if even by now ...


2 Comments, 54 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
TallNSensual2006 53 M
1  Article
The assisted profile   11/3/2006

There is something people should know about getting assistance from AdultFriendFinder with the wording of their profile: everybody is doing it... and it is extremely dull. I understand that sometimes it's hard to figure out what to put in a profile, but if I have to read, "For me a perfect date is one where we head out with a plan, but we go where the night takes us, " or "On Sunday, I ...


5 Comments, 69 Views, 10 Votes ,6.57 Score
rm_evil_pussy 44 F
17  Articles
groups   11/2/2006

what is the purpose of creating groups and emailing someone just to join your groups when they are hardly ever active???? i belong to several and i visit daily but you hardly ever see any new posts. seems to me like creating a group and joining a group would mean that you want to meet like-minded ppl and find those who are close to you. it just really confuses me.....some ...


3 Comments, 73 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score