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Deep Matters   by AdultFriendFinder Editors with Jusdewit8

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Deep throating her way through her extensive AdultFriendFinder network, Jusdewit8 is having fun and lots of success . . . and she's always looking for more! Direct, sometimes blunt, but very much the real deal, Jusdewit8 shows us the AdultFriendFinder view from where she stands.

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AdultFriendFinder You have a nice assortment of pics with your profile, and we noticed you're coming up on your 1-year anniversary on the site. Did you always post such exciting and graphic pics or did you sort of learn and experiment as you went along?

Jusdewit8 Thanks! What a year it has been! My pics have gone from ho-hum to HOLY COW, but I didn't really plan it that way. I do enjoy experimenting with them, and I definitely dewit to get a RISE out of the guys!

That's a clever strategy -- to put "DEEP THROAT album pics" in your headline. When did you put that up?

That headline was added about mid-March of this year.

How were the responses to your profile different after you put that on you profile? What were people saying about the pics?

My responses have gone through the roof -- they've easily quadrupled in number! Many of their subject lines say simply "WOW!" People are saying they really think the pics are creative, and VERY hot! And an increasing number of them are saying things like, "I want to see these pics I've heard so much about."

In your "Ideal Person" response, you say things like "I want to think about him every time I sit down for at least 2 days after we've been together." It sounds like you're a male AFF member's dream. Do people often ask you if you're "real"?

Yes, they do...but usually they don't word it as nicely as that. A lot of them also think my profile is "hilarious." The guys I've [physically] met found out in no uncertain terms that what I write is neither comedy nor fiction! And sometimes what's REALLY funny is the look of amazement that registers on their face once they figure that fact out . . .

Are you having fun on the site?

I am having a B-L-A-S-T. Literally.

Besides the actual hook-ups, what do you find exciting about the web site? What's the most fun, and what do you do when you're on the site?

The site itself is exciting because it gives me options -- not only in men, but in things to do. Lately, I am doing all I can to answer messages. Normally though, I love to try and whip things up in the Texas and Cyber-sex chat rooms. I always check "Who's Online Now" and who's been winking or hot-listing me. The magazine has long been a favorite place to give and get advice, or to sometimes blow off steam. I've also had quite a good time exchanging with others in some of the various groups that are available. A whole new world is about to open up for me though, because I am FINALLY getting a real computer, and I can kiss the limitations of my [current] internet device ADIOS! (Something tells me lots of web-cam activity is in my future!)

You are trying to expand your network. Exactly how big is your network? What are the advantages of having a very large network? Are there any disadvantages?

I do recruit heavily, and right now I have nearly 8000 friends in my network. About 75-100 new friends are added each day. Access to tons of sexy albums was the first advantage that struck me -- I've invited virtually everyone I've written since figuring that one out. I've found support on ...ahem...certain "issues" when I ranted via network bulletin (sorry AdultFriendFinder-- I gotta be me!). One advantage I never EVER imagined is set for FedEx delivery tomorrow! After appealing in a network bulletin for some assistance uploading pics, a MOST generous gentleman responded with an offer to buy me a BRAND-NEW COMPUTER so I could do it myself! He said he'd hate to see technology limitations prevent me from posting new pics. Now THAT'S what I call one SERIOUS advantage -- but certainly one that I never expected. I am absolutely stunned by his kindness, and very appreciative. The only disadvantage to having a large network that I have noticed, is that it takes FOREVER to load pages whenever I'm trying to navigate it or work with it. Right now, just trying to view my network tree zaps my goofy little machine's memory banks. I can't wait to be able to see it all soon, and employ my CATEGORIES -- Whew. *wink*

I'm sure people are interested in how successful you are on the site. Have you had many successful hook-ups? What were some of the best experiences you've had on the site?

I have had quite a few very successful hook-ups! I am here to tell you -- the machine I describe in my "Ideal Person" is alive and well...and currently recuperating. Heh, heh, heh... The best experiences I've had, without a doubt, are the ones that have evolved -- quite unexpectedly -- from being merely hook-ups into 3 of the best friends I know I'll ever have...I feel so fortunate. I have met some truly wonderful guys that already mean the world to me as friends. PLUS there's sex! What more could a girl like me ask?

Many guys might see your success and think she probably has so many men to pick from, how will I interest her in being with me? What would you tell them?

I'm not gonna sugar coat it; there's lots of competition. The good news is, it's not a handsome face that gets my attention. The bad news is, without a HOT ROD… you can't. I don't collect cock shots, but I do require them, and I screen for more than size. Believe me, this girl knows JUS what it takes to DEWIT up right (and the kind she wants to try next)! The other thing that really gets me is a guy who is AGGRESSIVE. On fire! Chomping at the bit! He's read my profile, he knows he's got what I want, and he does not hesitate to tell me ALL about it. I LOVE stuff like that, and I will tell you now -- I'm ADDICTED! Guys that ask me to cam, chat, IM, or meet for coffee don't stand a chance, because it tells me they haven't read my profile. Plain and simple. Ditto for the ones who refuse to send cock shots.

Since your pics are all about deep throat, what would you say is your key to success in deep throating?

I feel my success is largely due to a deep-seated determination to be VERY GOOD, if not THE BEST. I'm not just bein' cute when I say, "You haven't had good head from me until you see tears run from my eyes." They aren't tears of joy either! Swallowing cock is not easy; it's HARD work! And guess who is very dedicated to the principle "practice makes perfect"...now, the source of that determination is another story...if you want to know -- just ask!

We're running a 2-part article on deep throat in celebration of Deep Throat month, inspired by your profile. Do you have any little blow job tricks you might share with people who've been told they don't (or feel they don't) give good head?

I am SOOO excited! Yes, I have tricks! And I'm happy to share! I will try to list them in their order of importance. There is only one rule: No unintentional use of teeth. Avoid at all cost. Then, if you will:

    Get comfortable
    Take your time
    Relax
    Have fun
    Ask what he likes
    Listen
    Be creative and enthusiastic
    Act sexy
    Keep him slippery wet
    Start small and simple
    Notice what works and what doesn't
    Use sensuous rhythm
    Focus on what seems to work -- and then-give it all you've got.

Chances are, he will enjoy it immensely! I know I always do! One last thing -- and this trick works magically: SWALLOW!

You say you will reward your play partners with the best blowjobs -- what is it that makes the best blow jobs?

I think the best blow jobs are delivered by those who love to suck cock. Guys know the difference between those who do and who don't. Love what you're doing, and do lots and lots of the above.

What kind of responses do you get from men you play with?

I'm going to give you two responses to this question. 1) Verrry positive ones! If time is allowed, I will take a guy on a ride he won't soon forget. I really am not usually trying to make him come...I am trying to find his reactions to the different things I do to him...trying to blow his mind. Many times I can tell he is lost in his pleasure, in another world, doing nothing but soaking it all in and looking truly relaxed-and very content! Recently one guy flattered me with this statement, actually WRITTEN OUT and signed! It said, "NO ONE does what you do to the cock! Jusdewit-YOU RULE!" And, 9 times out of ten, I get the response that is music to my ears -- YOU'RE THE BEST!

OR, here ya go . . . Top 10 things I hear while I am giving a blowjob: 10.Who taught you how to do that? 9.You should teach!/You should make a video! 8.No one's ever sucked my dick for this long! 7.You are definitely talented!/You suck a mean cock! 6. OOOhhh...that is fucking intense!/OOOhhh...that's incredible! 5. No one's EVER made me come like that before! 4.MMMmmmm....I'm...gonna.........come! 3. You really DO know how to suck cock! 2.MMMmmm...you love suckin' that cock, don't you! Most commonly heard, #1.GOD you're good at that!/You ARE the best!

Do you have any wild or funny stories to tell about your experiences with AFF?

Actually, I have a quite fitting -- or rather NOT fitting -- experience I will share publicly for the very first time. The day I joined AFF, I was sorely in "need". . . I had not been with a man for LITERALLY 5 years. I was suddenly single and I mean, I was horny . . . I went straight into the Texas chat room, and it did not take long before I had about 5 guys to choose from. I picked the one who said a very tempting thing to me..."I'll fuck ya till you walk bo-legged." Three hours later, he was at my front door. I was incredibly nervous to be doing such a thing for the first time. I was also very excited that I was FINALLY gonna get laid. He was a very personable man, though not quite my type...we talked an hour at least before the moment of truth. He sensed my extreme nervousness, and actually offered that we didn't HAVE to go through with it. My mind had been made up to do him sight unseen. I wasn't about to back out now! I dropped to my knees as he un-zipped his pants-cuz I ALWAYS suck it first -- and what he revealed dropped my jaw. The head of a cock. sitting low on his pelvis, lacking virtually all of the shaft. It took all of my strength to restrain myself from looking up at him to ask if he had remembered to bring his extension! Every OUNCE of it!!! Instead, a wave of resignation pulled a white-out in my brain, and I sucked it. But not for long. I remember he said "Mmmm...you DO know what you're doin', don'tcha?" I bit my tongue to avoid blurting out "Yeah-and if you HAD something to actually WORK WITH, you'd find out what Jusdewit can REALLY do!!!" Those who know me well, know I don't hold back much, well or often, but it took a FIERCE molar clamp-down to stifle that one, seriously! I did the best I could for about 1.75 minutes, then I abruptly stood up, dropped trou, and bent over.

I endured his blessedly brief attempt to make me walk bow-legged. He said that he came. In my opinion, he gave up -- because I'm here to tell ya, he no where APPROACHED gettin' into home! The dude's cock didn't make it past my ASS CHEEKS! That AIN'T all that far people!!! After he left, I experienced an absolutely DIZZYING array of emotions. But one thought -- and one thought only -- did pervasively invade my thoughts for the rest of that day...I did NOT know GOD could be so CRUEL!!! The next day was when I decided I'll be damned if THAT'S ever gonna happen to ME again! Now you know why I require those cock shots. I feel bad for the guy if he happens to read this. . . Straight from the horse's mouth, BELIEVE IT! Heh, heh, heh! Here's to another year of BIG-LONG-HARD COCKS!

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