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how we met
 
Well i first seen hubby in junior high in the 7th grade . He was in my class and i thought he was a creep . He would sit at the front of the class and stare at me . Then after grade 7 i never seen him around the school but low and behold in 9th grade who was in my class . Hes locker was beside mine and he used to tease me and call me his slave , and i would tell him you wish .
we got paired up in gym class one day to play badminton against each othere nad this is where i feel in love . He on the other hand just thoguth he was going to get laid lol . He asked me out on 2 weeks before my 16 birthday and about 2 years later when we first had sex he said you know when i asked you out i thought we would have sex and i would break up with ya we laughed about it because he waited to years before he got laid . We gradualter high school together and have bben with each other ever since . We have been married for 11 years but together for 16 . We are best friends and we have a great time together ...............
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Kissing and telling......
Posted:Sep 24, 2013 11:48 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2015 10:23 am
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Is it important to you for your play partners to be discrete???? I understand that some people ask others for advice when meeting some one new ( for example do you know so and so? Are they nice?)It's one thing to say yeah I really like them or I'd steer clear but I don't think they should be sharing details about thier private encounters with you. Just wondering do discrete people still exists???????? How important is it to you for people to keep stuff to themselves??????
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Question?????
Posted:Oct 17, 2012 12:29 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2013 12:07 pm
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I have a questions that I have been wanting to ask ( and YES I want answers) . Im wondering if its acceptable to ask a potential play partner if he has a vasectomy? I dont always trust condoms, and if im not protected any other way , Id like to know. Do you think it would offend people??? Does anyone else have these concerns or am I crazy??? Maybe don't answer the last question LOL
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Funniest joke in 2012 so far !!!!!!!!
Posted:Jan 26, 2012 3:46 am
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2012 10:51 am
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Every day, a male employee walks up very close to a new female co-worker at the Coffee machine. He stops, inhales quite deeply and says that her hair smells nice. After a week of this, the woman can't stand it anymore. She takes her Issue to a supervisor in Human Resources and asks to file a sexual harassment grievance against the guy.

The supervisor is puzzled and asks, "What's threatening about a co-worker telling you your hair smells nice?" "It's Frank. The midget."
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Straight, Bi-Crious, Bi..........
Posted:Jan 7, 2012 9:08 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2015 9:33 am
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Us getting into this life style started by hubby asking me if I had ever thought about being with another girl. My first Reaction was NO are you NUTS! Then after I thought about it for awhile I had to admit the thought intrigued me. Thus meaning I was Curious. After the first time I fooled around I wrote on my profile that we I was bi curious. I dont playwith women alot but I suppose I am bi now, for sure more then curious. THe point im getting to is does it not work the same way for guys being bi or bi curious. I mean to me if im going to fool around with a girl im at the very least curious. However I have talked with several guys lately and they always ask if hubby is Bi( which he is NOT) and I tell then no and ask are they. Thier answer has me confused...... No im not bi but I did let a guy jerk me off or suck me dry before. Well!!!!!! doesnt that make someone at the very least Bi-Curious. Please tell me if im wrong , I'm looking for peoples opinions ...............

Thanks Nikki
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To be or not to be my Valentine.....
Posted:Feb 9, 2011 4:47 pm
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 3:52 pm
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These are entires in a poetry contest, asking for a 2 line rhyme with the most romantic first line , and least romantic second line.......

1) My darling, my lover , my beautiful with
Marrying you has screwed up my life

2) I see your face when im dreaming
That's why i always wake up screaming

3) Kind, intelligent, loving and hot
This describes everything your not

4) Love may be beautifulm love my be bliss, But I only slept with you cause i was pissed

5) I thought that I could love no other
that is until I met your brother.....

6) Roses are red, violets are blue, sugar is sweet, and so are you
but the roses are wilting, the violets are dead, the sugar bowls empty, and so is your head

7) I want to feel your sweet embrace
But don't take that paper bag off your face

I love your smile, your face, and your eyes, Damn I'm good at telling lies!

9) My love, you take my breath away
What have you stepped in to smell this way?

10) My feelings for you no words can tell, Except for maybe "GO to hell"

11) What inspired this amorous rhyme?
Two parts vodka, one part lime .

Who said poetry is boring??????
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How important is IT to you ?????
Posted:Jan 31, 2011 4:21 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2013 12:15 pm
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By IT I mean protection when having sex with others. It has been our #1 rule since we have gotten into the lifestyle. I have had guys who have said they would rather not use them and my reply is then I would rather not have sex with you. I mean in this day and age how stupid is it to have random unprotected sex. I know even with oral you are taking a risk but actual intercourse the risk would be far great. I personally dont think its worth it. Whats your opinion. Come on people be honest!!!!!
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!!!!!!!!
Posted:Jan 18, 2011 4:42 pm
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 3:52 pm
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I had 2 weeks off work for Christmas and spent pretty much all if with family and my . Cant wait to get to the hotel and not have to worry about going anywhere just relax have a few drinks and FUN !!!!!!!! Hope to see you all there
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Active Swingers
Posted:Jan 11, 2011 11:20 am
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2015 12:04 pm
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Wow its been along time since i have bogged maybe that should be my New Years Resolution to blog more!!!!! I was talking with some friends and realized Hubby and I have been in the Lifestlye for 6 years. I't didnt feel like it has been that long at all. Maybe its because in that 6 years we havemt been constantly "active". Not that we have ever took a break or anything. I just think that things happen and you get busy going a certain way in your life and swinging takes a back seat( well for us anyway) SO i guess what im asking today is "How active do you think most people are?" "Are there times when people are more or less active?" I know for us the summer is our time with family we dont usually get to any parties this time of year.
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What is a swinger????
Posted:Apr 21, 2009 5:02 pm
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2012 3:45 am
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If some one asked you whats a " swinger " how would you answer . Or what is the "lifestyle" . I was thinking about it today and wasnt quite sure how i would respond to someone who was asking . I know you all have opinions so lets hear them .................
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BUTTERCUPS & GOLFBALLS
Posted:Apr 13, 2009 8:04 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2009 9:10 am
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Towards the end of the golf course, Dave hit his ball into the woods and
found it in a patch of pretty yellow buttercups. Trying to get his ball
back in play, he ended up thrashing just about every buttercup in the patch.
All of a sudden, POOF! In a flash and puff of smoke, a little old woman
appeared. She said, 'I'm Mother Nature! Do you know how long it took me
to make those buttercups? Just for doing what you have done, you won't
have any butter for your popcorn for the rest of your life: better
still, you won't have any butter for your toast for the rest of your
life. As a matter of fact, you'll never have any butter for anything the
rest of your life!'
Then POOF! She was gone!
After Dave recovered from the shock, he hollered for his friend, 'Fred,
where are you?'
Fred yells back 'I'm over here in the pussy willows.'
Dave shouts back, 'DON'T SWING, Fred
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, DON'T SWING!'
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Just Because ................
Posted:Mar 31, 2009 10:22 am
Last Updated:Jan 11, 2011 11:13 am
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Just because i flirt dont assume ill fuck you......

Just because i give kisses or hugzzzz to certain people in chat dont assume ill do the same to you .......

Just because i may hugg you when we are introduced at a party again dont assume ill fuck you.......

Just because i may go to these said party or dances dont assume i hook up .........

Just because i spend alot of time with sexy people dont assume im fucking them ..........

I still cant believe after being in this lifestlye for 4 years people still think its a free for all . God forbid i have friends on a SEX site that i dont have SEX with . And can you imagine sometimes when i go to parties i only have sex with my HUSBAND ( now my secrets out lol ) When we got into this it was to make friends and see what happened , and yes we have had some bad experiences as im sure others have but for the most part we got EXACTLY what we were looking for great , wonderful friends, and the occasional FWB . For those of you who seem to make ASSUMPTIONS good luck to you on this site i think your gonna need it ....................
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Just for fun........
Posted:Feb 25, 2009 7:11 pm
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2009 11:04 am
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1. Who are you?
2. When did we meet?
3. How did we become friends or more?
4. Give me a nickname and explain why you picked it.-
5. Describe me in one word.-
6. What was your first impression?
7. Do you still think that way about me now?
8. What reminds you of me?
9. If you could give me anything what would it be and Why?
10. How well do you know me?
11. When's the last time you saw me?
12. Ever wanted to tell me something but couldn't?
13. Are you going to post this in your notes and see what I say about you?
14. Do you think our friendship/relationship will last a lifetime?
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IMPORTANT HEALTH INFORMATION!!!!!
Posted:Feb 19, 2009 4:34 pm
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2009 11:04 am
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IMPORTANT HEALTH ADVICE FOR WOMEN

Do you have feelings of inadequacy?
Do you suffer from shyness?
Do you sometimes wish you were more assertive?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, ask your doctor or
pharmacist about Chardonnay.

Chardonnay is the safe, natural way to feel better and more
confident about yourself and your actions. Chardonnay can help ease
you out of your shyness and let you tell the world that you're ready
and willing to do just about anything.

You will notice the benefits of Chardonnay almost immediately and
with a regimen of regular doses you can overcome any obstacles that
prevent you from living the life you want to live. Shyness and
awkwardness will be a thing of the past and you will discover many
talents you never knew you had. Stop hiding and start living.

Chardonnay may not be right for everyone. Women who are pregnant or
nursing should not use Chardonnay. However, women who wouldn't mind
nursing or becoming pregnant are encouraged to try it.

Side effects may include dizziness, nausea, vomiting, incarceration,
erotic lustfulness, loss of motor control, loss of clothing, loss
of money, loss of virginity, delusions of grandeur, table dancing,
headache, dehydration, dry mouth, and a desire to sing Karaoke and
play all-night rounds of Strip Poker, Truth Or Dare, and Naked
Twister!

WARNINGS: -
* The consumption of Chardonnay may make you think you are
whispering when you are not.
* The consumption of Chardonnay may cause you to tell your friends
over and over again that you love them.
* The consumption of Chardonnay may cause you to think you can sing.
* The consumption of Chardonnay may make you think you can logically
converse with members of the opposite sex without spitting.
* The consumption of Chardonnay may create the illusion that you are
tougher, smarter, faster and better looking than most people.

Please feel free to share this important information with as many
women as you feel may benefit!

Now Just Imagine What You Could Achieve With a Good Dry Merlot!!!
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