Coming on the next post...(after this one)
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Posted:Jun 5, 2013 9:56 am
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2013 7:59 am
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Hey all!
Today while I was hanging around, the subject of service at restaurants and the general asshole you'll see (or are depending on your day) came up. One member who currently is a server at a family sports bar (I assume) basically was telling everyone about her experiences and ultimately the golden rule of restaurants came up:
"Be kind to those who serve and cook your food. You never know what they can or will do to it otherwise."
Which I as a server/bartender for 8 years before my current job...believe in.
I'll make my post over the next day or so, But I'd love to hear any stories you may have from when you went out to eat, be it terrible service for your server or management, times where someone flew off the handle for something small, or if YOU have ever lost it because they just didn't get it right! I'd love to reference them in my next post.
Keep them coming too! Leave it in the comments or message me if you don't want to seem like that kind of a guy to the public! Discretion and confidentiality are what I'm about!
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Being Alpha as a mofo, while not being an ass...
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Posted:Jun 4, 2013 9:41 am
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2013 7:59 am
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I guess this is a little advice piece, feel free to comment or chip in with your experiences...
I use AdultFriendFinder in bursts...I find something i want on here, then take a break when either i don't want Gold anymore or when i'm good. I still try to keep in touch with people though! I'm not a man or anything, nor am I a notch in the bedpost kinda guy, I like finding good quality folks to meet as friends or as...fwb.
In any case...I've been making the Ohio chat room my home lately, and its a far better experience than cold calling people in IM (with all of its bugginess) or randomly shooting people messages. Plus you actually get to have conversation with people, regardless of whether or not they're interested in you. Pretty good stuff in my opinion.
However people are more vocal there too, and they'll let you know if they're interested in you right away which is definitely nice. So i guess i'm saying I've found people easier and quicker on the chats than I would have through normal means.
Thats not the point of the post though...
It brings me to what the real issue is...
I cant count how many times in the chat that conversation amongst the room is going great, people are having a good time, then some guy(s) come out of nowhere and spam on the women with PM's and overall messages about their dick or whoring themselves basically.
I understand that this is an adult personals site, but its not too different from real life. If you want to get anywhere with people...try talking to them like people. THEN if they show interest, go from there. Coming at people like "AY YO GURL I GOT DAT DOPE DICK WANT SUM FUK?" usually gets you ignored. Like real life, you gotta be a little bit classy at least. If a woman wants to rub their nether parts on you, they gotta at least feel like you are a normal person who actually cares about what they think.
The cruel irony of things is that the harder you try, the less you'll succeed when it comes to relationships (finding/starting one that is) If its natural, then things might work out better for ya. Classy, chill folks are the ones that see the most action and meet the most people. In general people are attracted to others they would like most to be around...so if you come off as a pompous ass, unless they are too, they won't wanna be around you!
Someone today said that "women don't choose men based on what their dick looks like." Which is fact. So all you guys who think that you have the thunder penis of the world that causes women to swoon at its gaze...come back down to reality cause that's not how things work. In the end, its only going to be inside of them where they can't see it, so what else are they going to look at?
Women gotta be attracted to you guys, personality and looks play a part after all. If you can't get past that then you're stuck.
Rant rant rant....any thoughts and opinions?
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Been awhile!
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Posted:May 1, 2013 10:24 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 9:46 am
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So!
This still exists!
Back on here to expand my horizons a little more and meet new people, for play (ha puns) or on a more platonic level.
When I think of topics, i'll post them, But yep! I exist once more!
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Just a random update...
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Posted:May 27, 2011 6:58 am
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2011 7:56 am
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Hey again! With life getting hectic and changes going on in my life, I first would like to say, I have met a lot of awesome, open-minded people on this site online and in person!
I would also like to apologize to any of those who I may have hooked up with or met in person, and then maybe I became scarce or have not communicated with after. I'm not a one night stand kind of guy, and I prefer to have ongoing friendships, may they be sexual or non-sexual.
My car troubles have complicated a lot of things, so....forgive me if I am not able to travel...oh say 40 miles to come and hang.
Still doesn't mean that I wouldn't like to talk with you though!
If you know me and still want to reach me, well...its not hard.
Look forward to meeting new people, and catching up with others!
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Sexual topic: Squirting
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Posted:Apr 26, 2011 8:13 am
Last Updated:May 27, 2011 6:53 am
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So...I was checking out the magazine...and I stumbles (the grammatical error is intentional...work with me here) upon a post...about squirting.
Long story short it was a bunch of people claiming it was fake, gross and unnatural.
FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU....
Maybe I'm biased. I DO have a fetish for anything cum related and squirting is at the top of that list.
But what I DO have a gripe with is the sheer amount of people who instantly dismiss something without doing even a tiny bit of research on it first. heck, even wikipedia (not a viable source i know, but for the sake of discussion...) has an article on female ejaculation. Look it up, learn something new.
In my opinion...the whole controversy behind it is that...well, it defies one of the laws of science: If something is fact, it can be duplicated in a controlled situation to prove it is. A lot of people pull the whole "I can't do it, so therefore it doesn't exist."
The answer is...YOU ARE DOING IT WRONG.
Things such as stress, inadequate stimulation, being dehyrdrated can make that not happen. For most women however, anxiety and not being relaxed are what keeps it from happening.
I have found that a lot of women have "prevented" themselves from doing so because they "Think" they are about to pee...
NOTE: While it is not impossible to pee during sex, it is EXTREMELY unlikely. Plus...lets put it this way...I just got up and took my first morning piss only 30 seconds ago. I can only IMAGINE that it feels like the personification of heaven coming out of your awesomeness for you women.
For those of you who are interested in pursuing that (for yourself or your significant other), you can do your own research but here's a great guide I have found on the internets and does win at it.
EDIT: FUCK wordfilters on AdultFriendFinder, just google "female ejaculation how to"
Until next time...
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