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foreplay...mostly oral needs clarifying  

dogslife2live01 71M
223 posts
12/6/2019 5:58 am
foreplay...mostly oral needs clarifying


after going through countless blogs of women asking (in countless ways) " likes to perform oral sex...
every man responded how much they loved it. some even boasted of the hours they would spend eating her, and the magic stored in their tongues...
now in reading even more blogs i came across women's frustration of men licking their pussy for thirty seconds and then rushing in to penetrate her. and then pumping her like a piston being fed nitrous
then reading even more blogs (is it possible to read blogs too long?). i read about this ghosting thing. no response thing. not meeting people thing.
so like i reposted, with clarification because so like i was wondering...

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


dogslife2live01 71M

12/6/2019 5:59 am

is this sex thing on AdultFriendFinder mostly an oral (written) thing, or is it really practiced outside the blogs at AdultFriendFinder?

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


stellabrian 64M/59F
79 posts
12/6/2019 6:23 am

As a young man I discovered the teachings of Dr. Betty Dodson who has been a pioneer in sexology teaching women how to know their bodies and discover total body orgasms. She opened a whole world to me as I discovered the beauty of pleasuring a pussy.
May I recommend dodsonandross.com

You will not be disappointed.


khan201972 57M
273 posts
12/6/2019 6:25 am

depends on how you look at it or your viewpoint
insanity/stupidity


scoupe42 60M

12/6/2019 6:26 am

We men, we do this, especially when we are super horny! But, usually the second around we do a better job.


Surewhynot00 47M
13 posts
12/6/2019 6:36 am

Guys suck at this


bitchkitty2017 71F

12/6/2019 7:22 am

who the hell knows but the " oral experts" who are all over AdultFriendFinder claiming they are the best hahahahah! and in saying that who the fuck knows ? Its like how much can one guy lick or how big a dick can one woman take ..who knows ! anyway have a good one


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
12/6/2019 7:59 am

When commencing oral on a lady, men enter a different time zone, I have blogged about this before.... When they say "hours" they mean minutes,,,
Personally it does nothing for me so 30 seconds is fine


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
12/6/2019 8:34 am

All men have this claim to fame. Its ridiculous. Personally, if you are doing it for "hours", you are doing it wrong.


dogslife2live01 71M

12/6/2019 10:35 am

    Quoting stellabrian:
    As a young man I discovered the teachings of Dr. Betty Dodson who has been a pioneer in sexology teaching women how to know their bodies and discover total body orgasms. She opened a whole world to me as I discovered the beauty of pleasuring a pussy.
    May I recommend dodsonandross.com

    You will not be disappointed.
in my findings it is not a matter of pleasuring the parts as much as pleasuring the whole.

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


dogslife2live01 71M

12/6/2019 10:48 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    We men, we do this, especially when we are super horny! But, usually the second around we do a better job.
totally agree with you my friend... but it ain't how many times you do her rather how well you do her
how well you do her depends on your ability to understand her needs

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


dogslife2live01 71M

12/6/2019 10:51 am

    Quoting khan201972:
    depends on how you look at it or your viewpoint
    insanity/stupidity
i hope your ability to understand women is greater than your ability to understand my quote
bonne chance

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


dogslife2live01 71M

12/6/2019 10:53 am

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    who the hell knows but the " oral experts" who are all over AdultFriendFinder claiming they are the best hahahahah! and in saying that who the fuck knows ? Its like how much can one guy lick or how big a dick can one woman take ..who knows ! anyway have a good one
there are those that boast
and
those that know

thanks my friend and you as well have a good one

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
12/6/2019 4:53 pm

Maybe it’s how I pick ‘em, but most men I’ve been with (and there have been a lot) spend as much time as required to be sure I orgasm while they perform on me orally. I am also not reluctant to make suggestions as to what my needs are...usually finger penetration while they are going down on me. In fact, I sometimes feel sorry for men who feel they are obligated to make a woman orgasm or they consider themselves sexually incompetent. That’s a lot of pressure on them.

Women need to speak up, and not just accept what is happening to make it a mutually satisfying experience.

I have also noted, especially some gentlemen, especially older ones, that profess to want to give more than receive often can’t get it up on a regular basis. Not that I should complain, they always make sure I am well taken care of.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


dogslife2live01 71M

12/7/2019 3:06 am

    Quoting tresennui:
    Maybe it’s how I pick ‘em, but most men I’ve been with (and there have been a lot) spend as much time as required to be sure I orgasm while they perform on me orally. I am also not reluctant to make suggestions as to what my needs are...usually finger penetration while they are going down on me. In fact, I sometimes feel sorry for men who feel they are obligated to make a woman orgasm or they consider themselves sexually incompetent. That’s a lot of pressure on them.

    Women need to speak up, and not just accept what is happening to make it a mutually satisfying experience.

    I have also noted, especially some gentlemen, especially older ones, that profess to want to give more than receive often can’t get it up on a regular basis. Not that I should complain, they always make sure I am well taken care of.
i am not writing about how i pick nor how others pick... just about what i come across in the blogs

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


dogslife2live01 71M

12/9/2019 5:27 am

    Quoting  :

that is what i heard...
now i just have to find that secret place

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


sportsfan362437 54F
1026 posts
12/28/2019 8:19 am

Howdy, sorry, but am adding my two cents in here (albeit late).
To me, any sexual act, is a sexual act. It's all about what comes before. If your minds connect, and enticing sexuality happens, I think it makes no difference. It's all about pleasing who you are with, and vice versa. For me, this can be done rather magnificently, without oral or penetration.

As for practicing in the outside world, of course it happens! However, more than likely not as jazzed up as in here!

Just my thoughts.
*Smiles, kisses n hugz*
~Sports


*Smiles, kisses n hugz*
~Sports


dogslife2live01 71M

12/28/2019 3:12 pm

sports i so agree with you. sex starts in the eyes,falls to the tongue, which fuels the brain. which in turn gives life to the hands.
and so the dance begins.
and so the exploration deepens....
and yes the best sex is a act of pleasing rather then taking pleasure
pity
this is such an elusive concept

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


missthee 58F  
4511 posts
1/18/2020 11:38 pm

Often wondered at the absurd claim of "for hours."


dogslife2live01 71M

1/23/2020 2:25 pm

nono you mean forever or until the lady has sixteen orgasims ( i always wondered how one could count the orgasimsins his partner was having while being completely engulfed in the deed ). i would assume these men are so focused on the end goal that seconds seem like minutes, that the minutes drag on like hours...
but i believe it is more like lick, lick, and one more like just to be sure she is pleased...pump pump pu, done
there are those men that are devoted to pleasure and
there are those men that talk

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


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