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pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
7/18/2018 5:44 pm

I, too, understand the betrayal of being cheated on.I t's effects can be long-lasting. Made me exceedingly leery of being involved with anyone again, and certainly ruined my trust factor many times over. I have not done an actual study of the percentages of cheaters on here by gender, but casual observation let's me think the men out number women in this area of
exploration. I have been fortunate in that my energy is directed elsewhere so the attempts to engage me are not as wide as yours. Maybe when the zodiac changes, your karma will as well. Beautifully written post

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japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
7/18/2018 6:01 pm

there is also another member said, when she looked her own profile on her phone, it was showing her marital status as "married"...and she never put that way, and this is only on the mobile version...Lord knows what the site does...it's total mystery...perhaps that you might wanna check yours, too...that would attract unwanted married men messaging you...


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
7/18/2018 6:07 pm

I was cheated on by my 1st wife, for our entire marriage of 10 yrs. I am not jealous even today of that, only upset cuz she couldnt or wouldnt tell me during our marriage. A man cannot own his wife's body, any more than a woman can own a hubby's body, and the only true reason for monogamy is IF YOU BOTH CHOOSE to be monogamous, and yes, most wedding vows say you are doing this, but the reality is the only vows anyone really pays attention to are the ones they write themselves, all else is forced form required by society. I chose monagomy in my 1st marriage, I never even considered anything else in my 2nd marriage, and in my 3rd, we both decided monogamy was not wanted nor desired, and so we were not, her much more than me tho. And I didnt mind, but many cant understand that. I didnt love her any less because she played with other men, because she always came home to ME. And I believe she felt the same as I did, tho she didnt say it as often as I did to her.


Januaryman99 55M  
327 posts
7/18/2018 7:55 pm

Yeah yeah, very nice. . . now make with the tits, honey.

Kidding. Of course.

I'ma cut and paste this for a do-over. Maybe a three-over, if necessary, because I'm just not smart enough to conquer this in one pass, and I'd like to. A challenging read. That's a good thing, though. Working me out of my flighty tendencies. Well played.

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citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
7/19/2018 11:29 am

Cheating hurts...a lot! I've been a victim myself.
Another thought provoking post. I'm finding you 'very unique' I must say.


sandiego1955 68M
179 posts
7/24/2018 3:21 pm

I was married, and found out my ex was cheating. I suspected something, but she would say I was being "Insecure" (Women love using that word). I had to have major surgery on my left eye, and when I was released from the hospital I need help with the eye drops. When I ask her to help she said "I not your fucking nurse maid", and thru the bottles across the room, and walked out (lucky they were plastic). I changed the locks filed for divorce. She lied throughout the court and received alimony for four years (longer then we had been married). We had no kids. Plus I had to pay her health insurance, cell phone bill, etc. She loved me getting the cell phone bill, because then I could see all the places she went with her lover, while I was working 16 hours a day six days a week. I keep my mouth shut, and did what the courts asked and paid it off. And moved on. The only thing is that I have a hard time ever being vunable around a woman. I feel just suck it up and deal with it. jim


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