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Misunderstandings  

bigblackman21221 53M
394 posts
10/18/2017 12:31 pm
Misunderstandings

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bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 12:33 pm

bcross;


mufdiver69er2 63M  
1953 posts
10/18/2017 12:57 pm

shit like this is why they coined the phrase..no good deed goes unpunished..crying shame but ya just cant be nice to some ppl..kudos to you for trying..

woop woop


candylicker_6t9 62M
317 posts
10/18/2017 1:14 pm

Some people have some deep seated issues and a hair trigger defense mechanism.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
10/18/2017 1:46 pm

    Quoting  :

Like Lala says women, and many people really, get defensive at the slightest non-thing. IMO, many people on the inter/web/nets are eternally but hurt. I've got stories form being here that are just friggin crazy. Best thing to do is "run Forest run" fast and far.

P.. Give Lala a few more points - she is semi-sane

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
10/18/2017 2:29 pm

I appreciate the points etc you have given me. I have not received Bling as yet though...so thinking I should put on my jealous green face....

I think some people get so much attention on here their ego get's the better of them...


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 3:17 pm

    Quoting mufdiver69er2:
    shit like this is why they coined the phrase..no good deed goes unpunished..crying shame but ya just cant be nice to some ppl..kudos to you for trying..
Sometimes you may be trying too hard.
I'm used to being misunderstood on this site. It goes with the territory.

Thanks for your comment.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 3:21 pm

    Quoting candylicker_6t9:
    Some people have some deep seated issues and a hair trigger defense mechanism.
I guess you are right.

I haven't been shit on in a couple of days so I was overdue. HAHAHA!!!

Thanks for commenting.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 3:27 pm

    Quoting  :

It won't stop me sexy.
I just got the VIP so I could get and give away points like I used to back in the day.
It fun.

As far as the points I gave you, you are very welcome.




bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 3:30 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Like Lala says women, and many people really, get defensive at the slightest non-thing. IMO, many people on the inter/web/nets are eternally but hurt. I've got stories form being here that are just friggin crazy. Best thing to do is "run Forest run" fast and far.

    P.. Give Lala a few more points - she is semi-sane
HAHAHA!!!!

I will give her more points. If she comes after me I'm blaming you. LOL!!!


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 3:36 pm

    Quoting  :

How do you get your blinf if you're using your phone?

I have to scroll to the bottom of the page and click Use full web version when on my phone.

You should be able to access the bling manager.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 3:40 pm

    Quoting gensan50:
    the more I read blogs on this site the more I see a lot of people have issues with themselves and others- a lot need help- after being involved in mental health since 1980 up to 2005 I've seen a lot- thing haven't changed a lot
I agree.

Thanks for commenting.


markster115 46M
141 posts
10/18/2017 3:59 pm

    Quoting  :

she's always blogging about a 'king' who gives points away.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 4:44 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    I appreciate the points etc you have given me. I have not received Bling as yet though...so thinking I should put on my jealous green face....

    I think some people get so much attention on here their ego get's the better of them...
I appreciate the points etc you have given me.

You would get more if you emailed when I sent them. You still can.

I have not received Bling as yet though...so thinking I should put on my jealous green face....

Don't be jealous about bling. The videos should make you jealous.
I've actually made bling of you Awhile ago. This one has been on my profile for months.



I have this one in my archives.



You should have already known I would think that booty was bling worthy.

I would have been genuinely disappointed if you wouldn't have accepted them as a gift so I just keep them to myself.

I think some people get so much attention on here their ego get's the better of them...

It's been known to happen. HAHA!!!

bchairm;


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 4:55 pm

    Quoting  :

Probably.

Still?

It seems like she is on a mission to get people not to associate with me.
I get emails from people telling me about emails they have received from her about me.

All I can say is if I were as bad as she claims there would be a lot more people (if any) who would be saying the same thing.

I'm confident that anyone that has interacted with me would disagree with her.

I'll just take the high road and let people make up their own minds.

Thanks for commenting.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 5:01 pm

    Quoting markster115:
    she's always blogging about a 'king' who gives points away.
That's all?

HAHA!!!

I heard it was me stealing points from people somehow.

I swear the roses attached to the emails won't explode. LOL!!!


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 5:02 pm

    Quoting  :

HAHAHAHA!!!!

Noted.




MzGoddessDomina 53F
59726 posts
10/18/2017 6:05 pm

LOL, yep, all the time. Makes you wonder what happened in her past to make her so defensive.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 6:13 pm

    Quoting  :

It is a bitch sometimes.

I doesn't stop me from being me.
Don't let it stop you either Cuz.




bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 7:17 pm

    Quoting MzGoddessDomina:
    LOL, yep, all the time. Makes you wonder what happened in her past to make her so defensive.
It was probably something terrible.

She has a soft under belly like most people.

Hopefully she will find someone to scratch it.

Thanks for commenting Goddess.


starrboo 54F
29 posts
10/18/2017 7:38 pm

well to me it sounds like she thinks shes better than any of the rest of us. shes on here for the same reason most of us are. she needs to get off her high horse and get fucked.

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1EA2 58F
1425 posts
10/18/2017 8:18 pm

Ihave had my actons misinterpreted before so I feel for you. 1st, if a person is the type that she sounds like, whe is easlily offended by 'everything', if you told her she was beautiful it would end up "You are so shallow you don't want me for my mind" type of thing.
2nd, maybe she is new on here and doesn't understand the tipping thing, I admit that I didn't.
3rd, whew, what a narrow escape you made, lol


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 8:49 pm

    Quoting starrboo:
    well to me it sounds like she thinks shes better than any of the rest of us. shes on here for the same reason most of us are. she needs to get off her high horse and get fucked.
I think all of us could use some good sex every now and then.

Thanks for commenting V.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 9:28 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm so glad I'm able to associate with you again.

I'm going to make sure you have fun.

Classy.....Classy.....Classy......

My first bling of 2017






bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 10:09 pm

    Quoting 1EA2:
    Ihave had my actons misinterpreted before so I feel for you. 1st, if a person is the type that she sounds like, whe is easlily offended by 'everything', if you told her she was beautiful it would end up "You are so shallow you don't want me for my mind" type of thing.
    2nd, maybe she is new on here and doesn't understand the tipping thing, I admit that I didn't.
    3rd, whew, what a narrow escape you made, lol
She isn't new here but I would agree that she doesn't understand the TIPPING thing.

As long as I'm here there is no escape.

It's all about how you play the hand you're dealt sexy lips.




bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/18/2017 10:19 pm

    Quoting MissDReid:
    Shit you know I get in trouble being so nice to people all the time.

    "You mean you're not in love with me!? Why did you give me flowers then!!!?" We've talked about this.

    But don't forget, people like us gotta try harder to make up for the other people.

    And I'm still airing on the side of the girl is just unique but harmless. She may have been joking even for all we know. You know how us quirky girls can be with all our eccentricities...
I can always look to you to put the most positive spin on a situation Points Fairy.

Folks from her part of the world have a unique way of talking.
What sounds like an insult to us Americans could actually be a term of endearment.

I still think it was a bslap;



Thanks for commenting.


vopesahe 62F
36414 posts
10/19/2017 11:34 am

Many people have a problem with themselves or with their perception, one does not know what experiences they have made in their past. Some can not accept good things.

I have sometimes the problem if I do something positive people take it for to granted and think I want to take advantage of my willingness to help. In real life but also sometimes here.

How could you give her only 80 points?? LOL

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bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/19/2017 12:26 pm

    Quoting  :

A day in the life...............

bchairm;


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/19/2017 12:34 pm

    Quoting vopesahe:
    Many people have a problem with themselves or with their perception, one does not know what experiences they have made in their past. Some can not accept good things.

    I have sometimes the problem if I do something positive people take it for to granted and think I want to take advantage of my willingness to help. In real life but also sometimes here.

    How could you give her only 80 points?? LOL
Es war nicht einfach. LOL!!!

Sie hat immer ihr Profil abgeschaltet.

Ich habe nur auf die Anzahl der Fans geklickt, die zeigen, wenn Sie mit der Maus über ihr Profil schweben.

Wenn sie die Anzahl der Punkte sehen könnte, die ich anderen Frauen gebe, würde ich ihre Einstellung verstehen.

Danke fürs Kommentieren sexy Frau.



Ich werde bald in deinem Blog sein.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/19/2017 3:45 pm

    Quoting  :

Sorry this one slipped past me.

Robbing Peter to pay Paul, stealing from the rich to give to the poor are ya?

I earn then give. I just know how to earn more than most. A lot more.

You see shit is now effectively stirred!

It always is. it always is.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/21/2017 1:48 pm

    Quoting  :

The bkneel; outweigh the bslap; and bpush;

HAHA!! Have a great weekend.

Thanks for commenting.


bottomXelite 30M
17 posts
10/29/2017 5:32 pm

Just for points


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/29/2017 7:26 pm

Sure thing buddy. Hope the site hooked you up.


D3S1R34 31M

10/30/2017 4:11 am

Lmao so this pretty much just happened to me today after I decide to send(waste) an invite on someone who responds and I actually be upfront about my intentions, casually. But after saying I'm not a Gold/VIP member she gets an attitude and says "not my problem". She also took the fact that I said I back in school and doing part time work temporarily as she not wanting to talk to me. But here's the real kicker. I ask her "Okay so why? This isn't exactly a dating site so we're not here to get into serious relationships". After 5 minutes of silence I also say that "What exactly are you looking for a sugar daddy for dates and hotels or just being petty?" Basically not once did she not get ugly about me asking her questions or giving her hints. I mean come on lol.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/30/2017 11:30 am

    Quoting D3S1R34:
    Lmao so this pretty much just happened to me today after I decide to send(waste) an invite on someone who responds and I actually be upfront about my intentions, casually. But after saying I'm not a Gold/VIP member she gets an attitude and says "not my problem". She also took the fact that I said I back in school and doing part time work temporarily as she not wanting to talk to me. But here's the real kicker. I ask her "Okay so why? This isn't exactly a dating site so we're not here to get into serious relationships". After 5 minutes of silence I also say that "What exactly are you looking for a sugar daddy for dates and hotels or just being petty?" Basically not once did she not get ugly about me asking her questions or giving her hints. I mean come on lol.
You'll find out that people are here for all types of reasons not involving sex.

Also, from what I have experienced, women that aren't already attached in some way are looking for serious relationships.

Thanks for commenting.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
11/1/2017 4:58 am

i have seen the person's questionable behavior previously...

personally i don't understand why the ladies on this site make a big deal about the points....phuck, i suppose those are the people who get offended if someone buys them a drink at a bar?? ain't nothing like you got to go home with him, tho...just say, thank you...


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
11/1/2017 9:10 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    i have seen the person's questionable behavior previously...

    personally i don't understand why the ladies on this site make a big deal about the points....phuck, i suppose those are the people who get offended if someone buys them a drink at a bar?? ain't nothing like you got to go home with him, tho...just say, thank you...
I like free drinks. HAHAHA!!!

I guess she is one of those folks that are easily offended.

Thanks for stopping by sexy.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
11/18/2017 11:44 am

bchairs;


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